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Disclosure Experiences Active 1 hour ago • 48 replies

How did your last disclosure conversation go? Sharing small victories and lessons learned

"Wanted to start a thread celebrating positive disclosure experiences. Yesterday I told someone I've been dating for 3 weeks. They simply held my hand, asked if I felt healthy, and thanked me for trusting them..."

U=U & Science Active 3 hours ago • 72 replies

Best ways to explain U=U to partners who aren't familiar with modern medicine

"I've found that sending the official CDC infographic ahead of our conversation helps take the emotional weight off. Has anyone else found specific resources that partner appreciate?"

Serodiscordant Relationships Active 6 hours ago • 95 replies

Advice for negative partners dating someone undetectable: Mutual empowerment and PrEP

"I am HIV-negative and my fiancé has been positive for 12 years. If you're a negative partner reading this, don't let outdated fear get in the way of the best love of your life."

Over 40 & 50+ Singles Active 1 day ago • 61 replies

Dating again in your 40s and 50s: Perspective, maturity, and renewed enthusiasm

"After being single for 7 years following my diagnosis in 2015, I finally joined HIVDatingUSA last month. I've had two wonderful coffee dates with mature adults who just get it."

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